When You See Yourself Attracting the Same Types of Challenging People or Experiences in Your Life

This activity has been extracted from p. 176 of You Have Chosen to Remember: A Journey from Perception to Knowledge, Peace of Mind and Joy by James Blanchard Cisneros.

When you see yourself attracting the same type of person, or experiencing the same kind of stress in your everyday life, do as follows:

• Thank yourself for bringing that situation to your life, for there is something for you to learn from the individual or event.

• Thank the individual or event in your life for its participation in your lesson plan.

• Ask your Godself why it is you are choosing to repeat such patterns.

• Ask to be offered guidance on how to resolve this issue with forgiveness and love.

• Pray that you'll be offered the strength and clarity to act with forgiveness and love.

• Acknowledge that every moment in your life is a learning experience created by your higher self to teach you how to be a more loving being.

• Acknowledge to yourself that you are not reacting in the most constructive and loving way possible.

• Forgive yourself for reacting in this manner.

• Forgive everyone and everything else involved in the situation.

• Acknowledge to yourself that there is another more peaceful and mature way of looking at this situation.

• Ask yourself what is more important: to be happy or to be right?

Read the entire section of the book that this activity comes from:  Forgiving Parents and Other Family Members.
 

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